Bagaimana Kita Memanfaatkan Hidup Kita? Adakah Ia Bermakna?

kehidupan bermaknaPernahkah anda terfikir apakah tujuan kita hidup di dunia ini?

Adakah kewujudan kita membawa sebarang makna?

Kita semua tahu bahawa semua orang akan menghadapi kematian. Ia sesuatu yang tidak dapat dielakkan.

Kematian membuatkan saya tertanya-tanya apakah makna hidup (meaning of life) jika akhirnya kita semua akan meninggal dunia?

Jadi apakah tujuannya menjadi produktif dan mengumpul harta, menempuhi segala yang kita lalui di bumi ini jika semua itu akan berakhir?

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Bagaimana Proses Menjadi Macai Bermula?

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Macai dan kemacaian seseorang bermula semudah ini sahaja:

— kita mengundi parti yang menang dan kita rasa menjadi sebahagian daripada [rangkaian kuasa] kerajaan.

Jadi apabila ada pihak lain sindir, perlekeh dan kritik kerajaan, kita tiba-tiba mudah tersinggung.

Hati kita terasa panas, dan kita mudah melenting untuk mempertahanan parti [kerajaan] itu.

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How to Make a Smooth Conversations (Even for Someone Who’s Not Good at Talking)

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I often hear complaints of this kind:

  • “my conversations don’t seem to go anywhere,”
  • “i try to say something, but then i get stuck for words and lose the thread of what i wanted to say.”

There are lots of people who are troubled by the fact that they can’t easily start conversations with others at the workplace or when having a drink somewhere, and are thus unable to form connections with others.

“I wish i could talk to people in relaxed, easy way,” they think, and a fair number may decide to learn techniques for stimulating good conversation.

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Listening To Others Make Relationships Go More Smoothly

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If we listen with sincerity to other people’s stories, they will be pleased and grateful..

We live in relationship with various people day by day, and that means necessarily living in different sorts of relationships.

Most of our problems dan sorrows nowadays spring from difficulties in such relationships.

These various problems relating to our relationships have a common source, namely, the inability to understand the other person’s feeling.

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