Bagaimana Proses Menjadi Macai Bermula?

macai PH Umno PAS
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Macai dan kemacaian seseorang bermula semudah ini sahaja:

— kita mengundi parti yang menang dan kita rasa menjadi sebahagian daripada [rangkaian kuasa] kerajaan.

Jadi apabila ada pihak lain sindir, perlekeh dan kritik kerajaan, kita tiba-tiba mudah tersinggung.

Hati kita terasa panas, dan kita mudah melenting untuk mempertahanan parti [kerajaan] itu.

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Bagaimana Melakukan Balas Sentapan Yang Sempurna?

Sentapan yang tepat bila memancing
Timing yang tepat semasa melakukan sentapan akan memberikan hookset yang sempurna!

Mungkin perkara ini tidak relevan bagi sesetengah orang.

— Jika ikan menyambar gewang, tarik sahaja la kan?

Perkara ini mungkin tidak menjadi masalah jika kita memancing ikan rakus seperti sebarau atau siakap menggunakan gewang minnow.

Namun, bagi sesetengah teknik dan spesis ikan, ia memerlukan skill dalam membuat sentapan (hookset)

Contohnya bila kita menggunakan soft plastic, jig atau gewang permukaan.

Atau spesis yang mempunyai rahang yang keras seperti lady fish atau mulut mudah koyak seperti kelah.

Ia adalah moment yang paling kritikal diantara solid hookup, hookup sipi-sipi sahaja atau tak dapat hookup langsung.

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How to Make a Smooth Conversations (Even for Someone Who’s Not Good at Talking)

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I often hear complaints of this kind:

  • “my conversations don’t seem to go anywhere,”
  • “i try to say something, but then i get stuck for words and lose the thread of what i wanted to say.”

There are lots of people who are troubled by the fact that they can’t easily start conversations with others at the workplace or when having a drink somewhere, and are thus unable to form connections with others.

“I wish i could talk to people in relaxed, easy way,” they think, and a fair number may decide to learn techniques for stimulating good conversation.

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Listening To Others Make Relationships Go More Smoothly

listening to human stories
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If we listen with sincerity to other people’s stories, they will be pleased and grateful..

We live in relationship with various people day by day, and that means necessarily living in different sorts of relationships.

Most of our problems dan sorrows nowadays spring from difficulties in such relationships.

These various problems relating to our relationships have a common source, namely, the inability to understand the other person’s feeling.

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